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by bnot
Fri Jan 02, 2015 12:35 am
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Sex
Replies: 51
Views: 12443

Re: Sex

A hand is a wonderful mate. It doesn't argue with you or smart alick you. It feeds you. It's always willing to have sex with you. A hand is a wonderful thing. And most of all the hand never files for divorce or wants to go spend your hard earned money. 8-) :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
by bnot
Thu Jan 01, 2015 11:16 pm
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Sex
Replies: 51
Views: 12443

Re: Sex

Oh yes, Boston coc aka crossroads movement/International coc turned the coc world upside down. I'm from Southern California, and I remember a girl at one of my churches went to live in Northern California for college and got involved with the crossroads movement. My home church was devastated. But b...
by bnot
Thu Jan 01, 2015 11:27 am
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Sex
Replies: 51
Views: 12443

Re: Sex

Not sure if it's appropriate to talk about this but I remember when I was about 21 in the Coc. I was still a virgin. Then one day at a Bible study out of nowhere I was told with one or two other younger guys that we shouldn't masturbate. I remember thinking to myself how impossible this will be, I ...
by bnot
Sun Dec 28, 2014 11:01 pm
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Celebrating Christmas- church services
Replies: 6
Views: 2088

Re: Celebrating Christmas- church services

This was the 1st time I ever went to a Christmas Eve service. My church has a contemporary style, and I love it. The building was packed!!
by bnot
Sun Dec 28, 2014 11:28 am
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Hello
Replies: 5
Views: 1631

Re: Hello

Welcome! This is a place for rants, so feel free. :D
by bnot
Fri Dec 26, 2014 12:57 am
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Christmas Eve on Wednesday
Replies: 47
Views: 8127

Re: Christmas Eve on Wednesday

Where is the "BCV" for having service on Wednesday night? I never got an answer to that question. However, to most C o C folks it's just as sacred as the Sunday gatherings and missing Wednesday night is considered "forsaking the assembly." Most CoC groups are sticklers for their...
by bnot
Wed Dec 24, 2014 11:44 am
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Christmas Eve on Wednesday
Replies: 47
Views: 8127

Re: Christmas Eve on Wednesday

I think you have a good approach by saying it's just an hour, but even an hour can be rough in a coc. Is the church you're visiting hardcore conservative/full of Bible gangsters?
by bnot
Mon Dec 15, 2014 2:57 pm
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Short Conversation
Replies: 20
Views: 4891

Re: Short Conversation

I read Reviving the Ancient Faith , by Richard Hughes, and found it very enlightening about the historical roots of the current COC culture. The chapter called "The Fighting Spirit" made a lot of sense of the modern and recent COC attitude of "I'm right and if you think you're right ...
by bnot
Mon Dec 15, 2014 12:32 pm
Forum: CoC doctrine, theology and crazy experiences.
Topic: Short Conversation
Replies: 20
Views: 4891

Re: Short Conversation

I read Reviving the Ancient Faith , by Richard Hughes, and found it very enlightening about the historical roots of the current COC culture. The chapter called "The Fighting Spirit" made a lot of sense of the modern and recent COC attitude of "I'm right and if you think you're right ...
by bnot
Sun Dec 14, 2014 11:23 am
Forum: Welcome -- please introduce yourself here.
Topic: Hello/Great Site
Replies: 10
Views: 2961

Re: Hello/Great Site

Welcome to the forum! What an excellent way of describing how we are programmed in the coc. The coc uses their chain scriptures (out of context) to instill fear so one won't leave "the church." I'm reading through the bible now beginning to end and when I read a passage and compare it to c...