10 year anniversary of my departure

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Wanderer
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10 year anniversary of my departure

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Hi, all. I left 10 years ago this month. Some Facebook "memories" popped up that reminded me of that fact, and I got quite emotional. I have to admit, I miss a lot of things about my time in the coc. I have never really felt like I "fit in" in any other church group ever since. I came back here (haven't participated on this site in probably 9 years) to remind me of some of the reasons I left, so that I would not talk myself into going back.

I was baptized as an adult and first started worshipping with an NI group, but spent several years in conservative-leaning "institutional" congregations before my eventual departure.

Hello to all.
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Ivy
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Welcome, wanderer!! We are so glad you are here.
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Wanderer
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Ivy wrote:Welcome, wanderer!! We are so glad you are here.
Thank you!
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Cootie Brown
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Congrats on getting your 10 year pin. I've been out since 2005. Well, that's when we officially left but mentally I began my journey out of the c of c around 1999. Leaving for us was easier than I anticipated and I can honestly say I've never regretted leaving.

That is probably because we were Baptist. We became members of the c of c through a Bible study in 1978. I'm sure since we weren't born into the c of c and had no family members in it, that made it easier to leave.
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Welcome, Wanderer!
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Welcome back!
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NI COC for over 30 years, but out for over 40 years now
Mostly Methodist for about 30 years.
Left the UMC in 2019 based on their decision to condemn LGBT+ persons and to discipline Pastors who perform same-sex marriages
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